Date Talk
Asian Affinity
 
What happens when trust becomes an issue before a date even starts? Cheryl and Ira interview a couple where despite her distinct attraction to Asian men, he doesn't have the confidence to ride out early complications. Tune in as our hosts dig into this dating dilemma.
 
Steve Lee: 
https://www.steveleecomedy.com/
 
Facebook Pages for Asian Guys:
 
 K-Pop Music:
Super Junior- "Mr. Simple" http://youtu.be/r6TwzSGYycM
Troublemaker- "Troublemaker"  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s-zRAQmKUkI 
 
Kickstarter:
 
Direct download: Date_Talk_Steve-Erin_Finished.mp3
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Brent Green- The Green Scene TV:
http://www.thegreenscenetv.com 
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnUIdFOz-p-z7EJ7zPJOKGQ
Articles on educating YOURSELF on Racism (Cheryl definitely needs to read this!):
 
Interacial dating Statistics;
 
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Exploring your boundaries of sexual attraction while on a date can be a little unnerving but checking in with yourself to affirm or expand your orientation can be healthy.  This month Ira and Cheryl have a Tinder matched couple come into the studio.  Listen in as they all discuss their dates and explore what happens when one woman tests the waters of heterosexual dating.   
 
 
Ash Fisher Comedian- http://www.ashfisherhaha.com/
Heart and Dagger Saloon- http://www.heartanddaggersaloon.com/
 
Music-
"Let's Get It Started In Here" by The Black Eyed Peas, Elephunk
"Hide Away" by Daya, Daya-EP
"Laced" by DMA'S, DMA'S-EP
"Bright" by Echosmith, Talking Dreams
 
 
 
Direct download: Date_Talk_Ash-Michael_finished.mp3
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Navigating interacial dating can be complex. This month Cheryl has a series of dates with a black, Puerto Rican man.  As a newly dating, mixed race couple it's hard to see if the issues are plain compatibility or complicated cultural and economic differences.  This Date Talk Cheryl and Ira try to unravel where the attraction went wrong and why. 
 
Vincent Cruz- Step On It Productions: http://www.step-on-it-presents.com/index.php
 
Articles on Racism:
 
Series of Interacial Dating Articles: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/news/interracial-dating/
 
Interacial dating Statistics;
 
Direct download: Date_Talk-_Vincent-Finished.mp3
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It's a new world order for dating.  Heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, pansexual....where is the attraction?  Is it fluid, static?  This Date Talk Cheryl goes for a coffee date with a transgender woman (MtF) and learns to navigate past her own ingrained stereotypes to find a few realities about the world. Ira and Cheryl prove it's never too late to get a clue.
 
How common is Intersex condition at birth?:
 
Namoli Brennet --Track: "Thorn in Your Side"  Album: The Brighter Side of Me (2004) http://www.namolibrennet.com/
 
 
 
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You never know when you might want a second chance.  In dating it always pays to bow out politely.  Never burn a bridge even if you think you won't need it.  Ira interviews one of Cheryl's dates who tries, not once but twice, to rekindle an interest but stubbornly Cheryl is not giving any second chances when the initial date was handled, albeit unintentionally, without thought to her feelings. Date Talk the best in information and comedy!
 
Video for Final Song: " Boys" by Savannah Outen https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v05hc36UwLU
Male Actor in Video: Trey Baxter: treybaxter1 on instagram
 
**** Cheryl's personal disclaimer- "I've never changed my online dating profile name"
Direct download: Date_Talk_-Troy_finished_---not_offical_name.mp3
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Ira interviews Cheryl's recent date who texts with tenacity.  How much texting is appropriate for each stage of dating?  Do detailed text questions promote dialouge or create a pressure for an answer?  What amount of texting feels comfortable?  Can texting styles make or break a brand new relationship?  The best of information and comedy!  
 
Date Talk LIVE.  Be a part of the live audience and participate with questions and comments on 6/5/2015 at Pappy's Sports Bar in Berkeley. Tickets: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-date-talk-live-tickets-16727882547
 
Remember to join in the fun and throw your name in the ring to be the one to set Cheryl or Ira up on their next blind date by joining the Date Talk Event on Facebook.  Know someone perfect for either of them?!?
 
 
Cooking Class Dates at Chef Joe's Culinary Salon:  http://www.theculinarysalon.com/
 
 
Direct download: Date_Talk-_Vexting_Texting_.mp3
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Cheryl and Ira talk dating applications and sparking romance.  How do people fan the flames to make a date sizzle?  What unwittingly douses the potential heat in the dating process? Will Cheryl ever be able to get her dates from interested to inflamed? The best of information and comedy!  
 
Dating Sites and Applications:
Plenty of Fish- https://pof.com
Coffee Meets Bagel- https://coffeemeetsbagel.com/

Also don't forget to join in the Facebook fun and throw your name in the ring to be the one to set Cheryl or Ira up on a blind date?  Do you know someone perfect for either of them?!?
Blind Date Facebook Event Page (to sign up):
 
 
Direct download: Date_Talk_Fire_Final.mp3
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​Cheryl discusses with Ira a recent blind date.  How do people decide two friends should meet and date?  How does meeting a person you know nothing about change the dynamics of the dating process?  Do our friends know us better than we know ourselves and have the insider track on who we should date?  Or are our friends as fickle as we are? 

The best of information and comedy!  
 
Excitingly...join in the Facebook fun and throw your name in the ring to be the one to set Cheryl or Ira up on their next blind date?  Know someone perfect for either of them?!?
 
Blind Date Facebook Event Page (to sign up):
 Blind Date Survival Guide:
7 Reasons Why You Should Want to Date an Older Woman:
Ira:
Direct download: Date_Talk_-Blind_Date-_finished.mp3
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This Date Chat, Ira and Cheryl talk about and reveal their self-imposed dating age ranges.  What's too young?  Too old?  Is there a limit on either side?  Is age really just a number? Is Cheryl a cougar?!?  
 
Cougars Anyone?
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Cheryl and Ira host a live audience for the stage version of Date Talk. They dissect a first date between Cheryl and a San Francisco, single, entrepreneurial man.  Does wealth have a place in attracting a partner? Is entitlement a thing in dating?  Join the fun as the audience participates and questions fly about herpes, high-rise apartment living and circumcision.  The best of information and comedy.

 

Direct download: Date_Talk_LIVE_FINAL_FINAL.mp3
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Date Talk this month Ira and Cheryl discuss ghosting or the slow fade. What happens when Cheryl's date does a no call/no text after two meetings.  Was it something she said?  Something avoidable in the future?  How to end things without just dissappearing.  
 
Ghosting: 
SlowFade: 
Direct download: Date_Talk_Ghosting.mp3
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Date Chat's co-hosts, Cheryl and Ira, discuss dating photos. Does your OkCupid profile photo show just your abs, guys?  Or your Tinder photo have no body shot, ladies? Everybody wants to see your eyes on Match! What's the worst you've seen?
 
Dating Sites:
Direct download: Date_Chat_Photo.mp3
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On Date Chat this week.... Ira and Cheryl discuss the manners and dating etiquette involved with seeing past dates out and about.  Should we acknowledge each other?  Or walk on by?  Isn't it just good manners to say "hi" or at least nod and wave?
 
For all things etiquette: http://www.emilypost.com/
Please sponsor us: http://www.chipotle.com/
Direct download: Date_Chat_Nod_and_Wave.mp3
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This week on Date Chat ......Ira takes charge of dating ideas.  Do
women want men to direct the activity ideas?  Make suggestions or give
choices?  Or would women rather pick the first date spot?  Is that a
man's "job"?  Ira and Cheryl discusses the possibiities.  Join the
discussion on Date Talk on Facebook!  Your opinion is needed!

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The newest Date Talk ...... Ira takes a date to his comedy show. Cheryl happens to be there to witness the first date.  Will they be dating a second time?  Is Ira actually funny? Why would a young, single woman admit to wanting to snoop?
 
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